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Matt Mooney

Matt Mooney

the humble pie of parenting

For some reason, she had been having a hard time as of late.  Though typically slotted as  most apt to obey under our wild roof, she had recently shed the title like a snakeskin and slithered straightway toward monikers such as Eve or Miss Demeanor instead.  Ginny and I spent several conversations backtracking to sift through what we had done or what had changed and had she been getting enough protein?  Enough sleep?  Sufficient attention?  Maybe some other student at her school had said something evil and if so it was probably a boy and I bet you I know…

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Death to the Marlboro Man

I am writing over at Mark Merrill’s blog today.  Mark started and runs Family First– an organization, that among other things, encourages moms and dads.  Now that sounds like a good idea.   I was always aiming for self-sufficiency. When I found out I was going to be a father, I felt an unseen magnetic pull that certainly bolstered this already alluring concept.  The billboard father that I placed on a pedestal and unconsciously sought to become had it all under control while simultaneously seeming to exert very little effort.  Some sort of Marlboro Man prototype (albeit, one that had…

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7:: cussing the calendar

This Sunday the calendar will tell me it has been seven years since I held him.  I will call it a bold-faced liar…a son of a motherless goat…a deceitful devil- cause there is no way that so much life has passed since I gazed in his almond eyes.  And then I’ll feel foolish for cussing at a calendar and I will come to accept that it is not the calendar but me that needs adjustment.  But I am inflexible- always have been; the type that counts the sins of calendars though everyone knows better.  Growing up, it was said of…

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Troubles

This is a guest post for Tanya Marlow.  You can find the rest of it by following the link to her blog.   I’ve made so many people feel awkward since I lost my son. I think I used to be more couth- maybe even suave- but not anymore.  And I’ve quit with the trying- too tired from years of grief now to catch back up to normal. I’m the guy who stops conversations at parties when the other asks what seemed a simple enough question about kids. And here’s what never ceases to amaze me.  It’s the Christians that are…

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reduce or revere

I have been stewing lately on an idea- one that was driven as deep as my soul goes.  A particular one of the many from days gone by when I held my first born with one arm- his lack of weight unable to even awaken my bicep.  He was so small and yet in him came such monolithic lessons from afar. Ideas came in coveys with Eliot and even in the throes of grief, but now I seem to struggle to keep up with the every day affair and busy myself fighting off the guilt bastard that likes to take…

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interview with publisher

Here’s a recent interview I did with my publisher for A Story Unfinished.  There is nothing more painful than hearing and seeing yourself, so I can’t watch it, but if you’re a glutton for punishment- by all means- go ahead.

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"I'm back & I'm ringing the bell

…rocking on the mic while the fly girls yell.” – Vanilla Ice tomorrow….GOOGLE HANGOUT  Everyone…just letting you know:  Thursday, Sep. 26th my publisher is hosting a google hangout where you can tune in and ask questions- or just be a wallflower and watch me struggle through answering questions from A Story Unfinished.  I wanted to throw it out there because we have had great fun with launch events locally, so this is a way that anyone can delve a little further into the story. Would love for you to join us….I’ve never done one either, so we’ll learn together; also,…

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If not us….

I have the honor of getting to be a part of the upcoming Idea Camp in Austin, and I can say I am truly looking forward to gathering together and listening to the folks that gather. The blog post below was one of- if not the hardest- blog posts to ever hit the submit button on.  Though I believe in the words that are written within it, I fear it can be or will be taken in a way I did not intend.  I decided that these feelings could either lead me to remain silent or I could wade into the…

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Settling back home & an update on Oprah

Oprah… Oprah is doing a “Where Are They Now” segment this Sunday at 7 central on our family and the work of 99 Balloons.  I haven’t seen it, so maybe it’s 10 seconds long or maybe it’s horrible or maybe they show a photo that focuses on my bad side.  But all the more reason for you to tune in. So, figure out a way to find a t.v. with the OWN network.  Though this inquiry might be an awkward conversation starter with new acquaintances, perhaps you have friends who have it.  Fellas, let your wives ask….trust me on this one….

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thoughts, links & sundry things

I am still attempting to process the Africa trip, though I am coming to believe that doing so will be more akin to a fine wine than a TV dinner.  I think I just dated myself with that reference….do you even know what a TV dinner is?  How ‘bout Steve Miller Band or the Cosby Show?  If you are confused, I am sorry and you are young. And what are you doing reading blogs if you’re young, this is for those of us who can no longer escape the orbit of our homes, and so we use screens to reach…

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Somebody See Me

By Matt Mooney | February 17, 2021

Matt & Ginny start the second half of season 1 with a seemingly simply question: What is a good life? An entire episode focused on the life of a man known as Bulldog– told through the eyes of his brother, Chris Wheeler. It is a journey of Chris beginning to see a person who was…

we are not our talents

By Matt Mooney | November 16, 2020

In the age of television talent shows galore, our hosts attend one that manages to flip the narrative of what a talent show is & could be. Chelsea, Jordan & Claire want to sing at the bEfriend talent show hosted by 99 Balloons, but to do so they will have to overcome their fear of…

we are not our bodies. Part 2.

By Matt Mooney | November 10, 2020

Matthew Lyle & Ginny Mooney continue the discussion of healing and the church by delving into the lives of their friends with disability who do not want to be healed, cured or fixed. When they stumble upon an article, written by Madeleine Ryan, entitled Dear Parents: Your Child with Autism is Perfect it is though…

we are not our bodies. Part 1

By Matt Mooney | November 2, 2020

When the loss of a child becomes a nationwide, prayer movement to #wakeupolive what does it say about the church and its relationship to healing? to suffering? In the first part of a two-part series discussing healing & the church, Matthew Lyle Mooney along with his wife, Ginny Mooney, set out to discuss the awkward…

summer

By Matt Mooney | June 12, 2015

Summer is here.  At 5, 6 and 8 we got rascals riding bikes and swimming at a skill level whereby we are not in constant stress.  I told Ginny sometime some summer not long ago that I was done going to pools.  With 3 that cannot swim alone, I can only act like I’m listening…

weekends with rascals

By Matt Mooney | April 20, 2015

I’ve worked hard to develop a new habit of carving out Monday mornings to sit and think and pray and grasp for some semblance of sanity before I cannonball into the week that will eat my lunch if I let it.  It’s a rebellious act of counter-intuition as weekends are supposed to be the very…

The Surface Dialogue Guidebook

By Matt Mooney | March 13, 2015

We’ve reached that point in these beloved Ozarks where we’re just all waiting around for the good weather.  We get all four seasons here; just enough of winter to know we don’t want to move north; which we needed no help knowin’.  Being bone-tired of Ole Man Winter being a hanger-on is all you’re allowed…

shifting gears

By Matt Mooney | February 5, 2015

I often look at my backside in the mirror. I move quickly past the place that you imagined I was seeking and find the splotchy spot just above the bend of my right leg.  It’s my biggest scar- remnants of days I spent riding my Honda 80 dirt bike for hours on end along the…

striving for a secret

By Matt Mooney | January 7, 2015

Check it out, Ginny & Lena are in the current edition of National Geographic.  A while back, a wonderful photographer followed our family around for a few days in order to capture photos illustrative of an article on brain development…fascinating article and wonderful pictures (we think).               _____________________________________ If…

from Fergie to Ferguson

By Matt Mooney | December 2, 2014

Against my better judgment, Ginny convinced me last Monday to sit beside her and watch the American Music Awards.  I begrudgingly complied- mainly due to the fact that I love her and if she invites me to sit close to her, I do it- every time.  I’m a sucker that way, but that doesn’t mean…