friends of a daunting nature

by Matt on July 24, 2010

I have made my way back to balmy Fayetteville; Ginny and the rascals stayed on in Michigan for another week, so I am busy watching movies, reading books, and sleeping in- as well as trying to appear as unpathetic in public as possible in their absence.

In an effort to tell better stories, I have been reading some memoir/essay style books from folks who are masterful at bringing you into their world through ink on a page.  This assignment, for me, is like asking Ginny to taste test various chocolates; these style books are my favorite.

Here’s a list of some books in this genre that I have enjoyed.  It’s not meant to be exhaustive or a ranking, but rather a look into my man-purse on a given day.

Anne Lamott::  Traveling Mercies

Joan Didion:: The Year of Magical Thinking

David Sedaris::  When We are Engulged in Flames (*warning…all around saucy)

Kelly Corrigan:: The Middle Place

Let me know byway of comments of your own favorite or favorites- or any that I have left off the list.  The genre I am referring to is not an exact science, so feel free to recommend anything close.  For the most part, it’s essay or memoir style books that weave between narrative storytelling and pauses for thoughts on the process.

I’ve left so many great works out…come on add one or five, it won’t hurt a bit to move from lurker to commenter.

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four pictures

by Ginny on July 20, 2010

just because i’m his mom & every mom oohs & ahhs at pictures of their kids. what a looker, huh?

happy birthday, son.

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Four tomorrow

July 19, 2010

He would be four tomorrow.
Sounds like a cliché line cut from a country music song, and I desperately wish I could be more poignant, but my mind will not oblige, as I cannot seem to move past these five words.
He would be four tomorrow.
Or rather, is it, he is four tomorrow? Though, with all [...]

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beautiful things

July 11, 2010

still heavy on the drugs, rest, and fluids.  but I can feel some life creeping back in.  found this somewhere in my time on the couch and thought it expressed a longing we hope in.

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under the weather, but the weather is nice.

July 9, 2010

I’ve been in a little bout of pneumonia here in the north, and it’s been winning for the last four days, but now that we found the culprit, I think the tide may be turning.

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Michiganders

July 2, 2010

Well, not really, but at least for three weeks for me & a month for the rest of the clan.  I surprised Ginny the day before we left & came out with her and the rascals.  I was supposed to follow them up a week later, but a few maneuvers on the down low, and [...]

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headed north

June 24, 2010

Preparations have begun for our 2nd annual, summer trip to the
northern Michigan town of Petoskey.  Ginny’s family has a tradition of
heading to this throw-back town when the temperatures rise that dates
back to at least the 1920’s.  Last year her family bought a cottage so
that the tradition could continue.  This year, the trip falls at a
great [...]

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dear dad, love rascals

June 19, 2010

dear dad,  thank you for how many hours you spent on your knees on my behalf.  thank you for loving every little thing about me & for loving me so well.  thank you for doing everything to take care of me… from talking to doctors & finding the right food pump to walks around Wilson [...]

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one moment to the next.

June 13, 2010

Last Wednesday night- just around 5 pm- lies a memory that Ginny & I
will not soon forget.  For both the best & worst of reasons.
I had taken the double stroller and kiddos on a walk so Ginny could
have a second to prepare dinner.  Looking back, there seems nothing
unusual- even the route was the same one [...]

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merely a miracle

June 5, 2010

Below is a post from TEAMworks Ukraine, a 99 Balloons initiative, documenting just one of the amazing stories they brought back from their trip.  We are busy praying and planning additional ways to help out in Ukraine, as well as other geographies; the goal is to build relationships in order to raise the stature of [...]

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